The definition of who you are

Ester Perel, the relationship guru says that the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. and I cannot agree more, because in my opinion everything is about relationships too.
Romantic, personal and professional.

As individual, you are the sum of your relationships, the sum of the quality of your relationships. The quality is very important to be mentioned.

Every human being is craving deep human connection.

There are many studies applied on millions of people and the result is the same: the most important thing for every human is the meaningful connection it has. And of course, deep down this comes to feeling loved, appreciated and acknowledged.

QUESTION THIS

Are you happy with the quality of your relationships?

What does that even mean?

For me, it means to be complete!

Complete with all your relationships, and complete doesn’t mean over. It just means accepting the other’s point of view, having uncomfortable conversations, being out of the comfort zone, listening to the other one and giving him a chance to say how he felt when you said something that maybe was hurtful. Shutting down relationships is the easiest thing that humans can do, hoping that the next persons will be better, or hoping they will be better understood. But every time we run from a connection, we actually run away from a part of ourselves that is subconsciously in denial.

If you are not happy with any of your relationships,  your colleague, husband, sister, friends, partners and so on, I encourage you to do something different.
Different works.

Many times when people feel a lack of connection, they tend to do more of what they are already do, to make it work… but guess what? That doesn’t work. If you do what you already do, but you just do more of it, you will have the same result, but more intense.

Maybe try a different approach, a different style of communication, or acknowledging people around you for the little things, be grateful for the people around you and let them know what you feel for them and how you feel about them.

When your relationships will be meaningful, you will be happy.
You will be complete. Life is so good when there is nothing to hide and you are free. It is not a shame to feel anything. People come from different contexts and will always feel in different ways, that doesn’t mean they are wrong! People that are always right, tend to be the ones that longterm don’t have any businesses, friends, and any deep relationships… In different words, they live in their own jail with colored painted walls and call it freedom of speech. Being right is an illusion, there is no such thing!

I really do hope that this article made you question a few things, and I would be most grateful and happy if it actually triggered you to take an action. Feel free to write your comments below and I will make sure to respond via Q&A Video Day. 

Stay on the rollercoaster until the ride ends. Great things need time to manifest, so be patient with yourself!

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